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Why Do We Camp in Trail Life USA Troop TX-0098?

After our Troop campout this past weekend, I woke up this morning with a few things on my heart.  I shared the following with our Troop, and thought maybe a few nuggets of usefulness would be present for other leaders.  Maybe not.  I’m not a writer and this is mostly raw, unedited, unrefined stream-of-consciousness, but here goes:

Just a “short” reminder that camping has a higher purpose and is just a vessel, through which we *hopefully* accomplish so much more.

I genuinely believe that this weekend was one of the best campouts that we’ve had in quite some time.

It certainly wasn’t because we had beautiful, clear skies the entire time or because things were comfortable and easy.

It also wasn’t because everyone knew exactly what to do, how to do it, or because we were 100% prepared for every possible situation or difficulty.

In fact, the running lights on our trailer went out on the way there, I was pulled over by a Sheriff due to said lights (that’s the first time I know of for that to happen on a Troop campout in the past ten years), we had our first broken bones that I know of in the 20 year history of our Troop, it rained for a significant portion of the trip, it hailed, we had water inside of our Troop tents for the first time ever, we had first timers who had no clue what they were doing, we had teenage boys walking through a difficult time of life and adult men with different opinions of how things should be done, and we had Trailmen who were disappointed that they didn’t earn badges they had hoped for.  For each of those things, let me extend an apology for things outside of the control of men. 

But let us also consider that maybe character isn’t built by sleeping in a temperature-controlled hotel room with room service.  Maybe our young men won’t learn to lead others *only* by reading a handbook.  Maybe they aren’t going to figure out how to respect an axe, hatchet or pocket knife by watching YouTube videos.  Maybe, if we avoid all possibilities of injury or disagreement or bad weather, we won’t ever have the opportunity to give these young men the various skills that they’ll desperately need someday.

There’s nothing wrong with a hotel room, or YouTube, or reading a handbook. Each can be useful, but by getting out in the Lord’s Creation, experiencing the unexpected, and rising to new challenges, these men of tomorrow are building skills that many won’t have.

To the seven dads who joined me in building into the young men this weekend: THANK YOU!!  Believe me, I know it isn’t easy to show up every week for meetings and/or every month for campouts, year after year for a decade, but our sons need you.  They need every dad that they can get - speaking life, encouragement, courage, skills, Biblical teaching, values and character into them and sharing adventure with them as frequently as possible. 

They need all of us men, building a better village for tomorrow, so that they can go out into the world in a few short years with the best tool kit they could possibly wield.  What tool can you add to their belt?

If any of you have had the unfortunate luck of experiencing a campout where I am the primary lead adult, you are painfully aware that these boys will need the skills of other dads.  How can you help?

I can’t even begin to thank each of you enough for your efforts to help me raise Kyle to be the kind of Godly man that I pray he will become.  Trail Life USA, Troop 98, and you men have built so much into him, and I am blessed to watch it happen and see the effects on who he is.  

Each trip, each adventure, each Wisdom from the Wild, each Chapel service, each time he messes up and receives correction, each time he falls and is lifted by others, each time he gets to laugh and experience something new, his world is opened up in great new ways.  I pray that the same is true for each of your sons.

Each of you dads brings something different - gifts, skills, knowledge, abilities, passions, and so much more - to the table.  During the course of a weekend, each of you will feel a nudge from the Lord to bring a word or to teach a skill or speak encouragement or tell a joke or to cook something or to remind a young man to be careful or even to take calculated risks - that will never come from me.

These are the things that a community does for one another. 

That’s what Troop 98 does for each other.

We are all in this for different reasons, and I get that.  We want our sons to have more friends.  Our sons want to camp or canoe or hike or learn to tie knots.  We want them to have one more avenue where they hear about Jesus in a different environment.  We want them to, or they want to, earn a specific rank or award or even ALL the awards.  We want them to be better people than we are or to experience things we wanted to do as kids, but couldn’t.  Some of us want all of that and more!

Whatever the reason you and your son are involved, whatever God used to bring you here, let’s all commit together to view this as a ministry.  Look at it through Kingdom-colored glasses.  Consider what you have to bring to the table and do it the best you can.  Ask the Lord to show you where you can help, and jump in.  Talk to your son about what he’d like to see you do in the Troop.  Talk to an adult leader about where we need you.  Look for ways to be a blessing to the boys and the other dads around you.  Look for ways to build  the Kingdom of God, by building into 50 young men!  This applies to Tuesday nights and monthly campouts the same.

Lastly, let me assure you that if you do, I can promise you that eventually, several things will happen:

1. You’ll be even more exhausted than you already are,

2. The exhaustion will be 100% worthwhile if you ask yourself about the most important things in your life,

3. You will see your son and the men around you through different eyes,

4. You’ll wonder why you didn’t get involved sooner,

5. You’ll come to a point where the end of your son’s time in the Troop and his 18th birthday are both rapidly approaching, and you’ll be saddened that you have only a little time left to make the difference you’ve always wanted to make in his life,

6. You’ll cultivate some of the best friendships that you never realized were possible, and

7. Your only regrets, a few years down the road, will be that you didn’t do a better job, more for your son, or more for the Troop.   

Thank you for taking the time to read this, but thank you even more for committing right now to pray about what you can do for our young men, and thus for the world of tomorrow.

Kyle Earned His Horizon Award!

I just wanted to share a quick post to say that my son, Kyle, earned his Horizon Award this week!!  

He has been working so hard to get here, and is so excited to have finally accomplished this difficult achievement. 

I am a proud dad this week.   

The following picture was taken right after we were told that he passed his Board of Review: 

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We sat down last night to do some Freedom Award planning and to look over his timeline.  He put together his own Plan of Action with times and activities for the coming week.  Part of that plan is to spend a significant amount of time reviewing the Freedom Procedure Guide and being certain that he has all of the various pieces straight in his head, and then beginning to implement those pieces that he hasn’t focused on yet.   

I believe he is off to a good start.  I’m praying for his journey! 

Start of our 11th Year in Troop 98!

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This photo was taken back in August on the first day of our family’s 11th program year in Troop 98. 

Lots of things have changed in those eleven years. When we started, Kyle was a tiny Cub Scout, Megan was a little sister in a Tiger Den, Olivia wasn’t even born yet, and I didn’t yet know most of the people who are my closest friends today.

In eleven years, my wife and I have had two more amazing kiddos, our Troop has switched from BSA to Trail Life USA, Megan joined an American Heritage Girls Troop, then our Charter Org chartered our own American Heritage Girls Troop (also Troop 98), with my wife part of the founding Core Five, and then we changed our meeting location. Mercy, no wonder I’m tired!

On a personal note, I’ve gone from a scared parent in the back corner, to having served as COR for the past five years - although I’m still not a fan of being up front in any capacity!  I’ve massively expanded my comfort zone in the outdoors and my skill set.  

Troop 98 and Trail Life USA have both made a huge impact on Kyle, but then again, that’s what I was expecting on day one. That is the primary reason we joined Troop 98 eleven years ago.

What I didn’t expect was the impact on my own life! I’ve grown close to some of the best friends I’ve ever had the privilege of knowing.  These guys have challenged me to grow in every way and have helped me through life in ways I never knew I needed.  They’ve been there for me when I needed them, and they’ve built into my family.  

As a guy who lost most of his family early in life, they’ve filled some pretty big holes.  

I guess what I’m saying is that much has changed in eleven years, but I’m incredibly blessed to be able to say that!   

Thank you to Trail Life USA, Troop 98 and all of the amazing people that I’ve met through our family’s involvement!  I can’t even put into words what you all mean to me.

Lastly, I would add that if you have been considering joining a Trail Life USA Troop - DO IT! Don’t hesitate! Find a Troop and go join, NOW! You can use the Trail Life USA Troop Finder by clicking here! If you are already part of a Troop, and you think you’re only there for your son, with no intention of getting to know the other Troop dads or no intention of helping out in leadership - I highly recommend that you pray about adjusting your perspective. Jump in there, help out, get to know the other dads/families, build into the other Trailmen, find a way to contribute. I guarantee that when you look back on your involvement in a few years, there is no possible way that you will wish you had done less!

I have not had the time to devote to blogging the past few months as our family purchased ten acres in April, and we have been a bit overwhelmed by that. Things have begun to smooth out a little, and I hope to share lots of reasons you should consider joining and getting involved in the coming weeks and months! I hope you’ll read along!